One night a friend asked me, "How do you love yourself when all your life, all you knew was being loved by someone."
I honestly didn't know how to answer this. In general, it is you just giving yourself LOVE that no one else can ever give. But how do you really do it?
To me, self love is a journey... a challenging yet so fulfilling journey that would require work, belief, resilience and grit. It is a journey of discovering and accepting who you are. It is a journey of knowing your worth and what you truly deserve. Lastly, it is a journey of defining what loving and being loved really mean to you.
My journey was a long one but I am grateful to be surrounded with friends who have showed me ways to love myself. I still think I am not fully loving myself yet but I've gone too far in this journey. I am almost there, I know it.
If you are in your lowest and kept seeing patterns of abandonment, loss, discontent, unworthiness and dependence, maybe this message is a calling for you to look for love from within. Maybe I can share a thing or two, or maybe you need a community to support you through your journey.
You don't have to be alone doing this. 🙂