Tea Time with Miyo

For those who are just beginning to hear about 3I Atlas, let me offer some context before we go any further.

3I Atlas has been described in scientific circles as an interstellar object—an anomaly moving through our solar system that does not behave like what we traditionally expect from comets or debris. To consciousness explorers, however, it represents something more subtle: an intelligence event, a moment where observation, resonance, and awareness intersect.

I’ve been aware of 3I Atlas for some time now. Not as something to speculate about casually, but as a field of influence. One that coincides with noticeable energetic shifts, particularly in collective consciousness, memory activation, and nervous system sensitivity. Because of this, I’ve performed rituals and alignment practices not to “call” anything in, but to stabilize my own field as these shifts move through.

That distinction matters.

What 3I Atlas Represents at a Consciousness Level

Regardless of how one interprets its nature, whether it is purely physical, symbolic, or something layered, 3I Atlas points to a recurring theme I’ve taught for years: intelligence does not only exist in form; it exists in resonance.

In energy work, we already understand this. Healing doesn’t occur because something external fixes us. It occurs when the system remembers coherence. The same applies here.

What’s significant about 3I Atlas is not whether it is “alive” in the way we define life, but that its presence encourages a re-evaluation of long-held assumptions:
• that consciousness is localized
• that intelligence must be visible
• that evolution happens only through force rather than harmony

These ideas are not new. Ancient civilizations understood them intuitively. Modern science is only beginning to circle back.

Alignment, Not Invocation

When I work with large-scale energetic shifts like planetary cycles, solar activity, collective emotional tides, or phenomena like 3I Atlas, I don’t approach them with fear or expectation.

I approach them with alignment.

Ritual, in this context, is not mystical theatrics. It is a somatic and energetic practice that:
• grounds the nervous system
• sharpens discernment
• and keeps the body coherent while the environment changes

This is the same principle behind Reiki, breathwork, and conscious embodiment. We don’t chase energy. We meet it with stability.

What Matters Energetically (Not Cosmically)

From a Reiki perspective, the details of what 3I Atlas is are less important than how the body-field responds during periods of change.

We already know this:
• Energy follows attention
• Coherence supports healing
• A regulated system integrates information more safely

When large-scale energetic movements occur, phenomena like this included, sensitive systems feel it first. That doesn’t mean something is “happening to you.” It means your system is perceptive.

Our work has always been about stabilizing the channel, not amplifying sensation for its own sake.

I had a strong download today while doing my usual energy check-in. It is one of those quiet whispers that lands with so much clarity and precision I can’t ignore it. And because I like verifying my intuitive hits with something objective, I checked it against my own natal chart… and the pieces lined up too perfectly.

I’ve always known I had a natural kind of psychic protection. My psychic field feels like reinforced titanium with a built-in karmic boomerang. I used to wonder why nothing ever seems to stick when people send negativity my way. Turns out, my chart literally explains the architecture of my protection.

Saturn in 12H = Lifetime-Grade Spiritual Firewall
With my Saturn sitting in the 12th house of my chart is a placement that naturally gives me a structured aura, a strict boundary against psychic intrusion and a built-in karmic accountability field around my energy. I literally incarnated with a cosmic "Do Not Trespass" tape wrapped in monk-level discipline hehehehe...

If you don't know yet, Saturn guards the unseen realm, so anyone trying to poke me energetically ends up poking Saturn. This I tell you, Saturn is not the "gentle warning" type. Saturn is the "sit down, reflect on your life decisions and suffer the natural consequences of your own actions" type. So yes, evil eye doesn't penetrate me. It isn't arrogance, it is my architecture.

Saturn Conjuct North Node = Karmic Authority
This particular aspect in my 12H reinforces that I carry ancestral karmic resilience. My soul path includes mastery of spiritual boundaries, and anyone projecting negativiy toward me activates their own karma, not mine. This conjuction meant that I already did soul work in my previous lifetimes and the shield that I enjoy now is something I earned.

My energetic field is under Saturn's jurisdiction. Anything sent to me gets scanned, logged and, when needed, returned to sender with an educational seminar from the Universe. So take that in slowly. It is not revenge, not malice, but a simple and elegant karmic correction.

Virgo Modality = Precision Cleansing + Energetic Efficiency
Virgo isn't just organized, it rules purification, discernment, systems of healing and sutble energy maintenance. So my Saturn-NN in 12H Virgo expresses as natural psychic discernment, unconscious energetic filtration and high immunity to psychic pollution. It is like having a filtration system that auto-cleans the aura before negativity even reaches my emotional body.

12th House = Hidden Enemies + Spiritual Cause & Effect
So now here's the kicker, the 12th house governs hidden enemies. There are the people who doubt you, gossip about you, feel threatened by your light and project their insecurities onto you. You know that these energies can really affect you if you do not project yourself or practice energy hygiene.

With my Saturn in that house, these kind of people do not harm me the way it should. Instead, they trigger karmic consequences for themselves because they are not actually attacking me with their thoughts, they are attacking my Saturn. And Saturn always says, "return to sender, but with homework."

Saturn-NN in Virgo 12H Sextile with Scorpio Moon = Alchemist's Shield + Oracle's Radar + Hidden Spiritual Machinery
My Scorpio Moon is my intuitive scanner which gives me X-ray emotional perception. This is an ability I have to feel the truth behind people's words. This is my built-in warning system for hidden motives, a deep insticnt for detecting energetic inconsistencies. I have a "lie-detector" heart especially around values, safety, and trust.

Scorpio Moon don't guess, it just knows. And it knows from intuition not logic. So while my Saturn provides the protection, my Scorpio Moon provides the early detection system. I strongly feel energetic shifts before others even notice they are emitting something my way.

Saturn in 12H is like having a quiet karmic judge, a private spiritual guardian, an unseen boundary-laying architect and a permanent shield around subconscious. I am protected even when I don't know I am protected. It is stronger when I am asleep, in meditation, in moments of vulnerabilty and during intuition downloads. I got my Saturn as a full-time spiritual bouncer.

This combination makes me sensitive (through Scorpio Moon) and impermeable (through Saturn in 12H). Normally, anyone with Scorpio Moon can be easily affected by hidden resentment, energetic hooks, emotional manipulation and jealousy aimed at them but my chart placements creates a plot twist. Saturn in 12H creates a barrier that prevents my Scorpio Moon from absobing negativity. While my emotional body registers the intent, my spritual body refuses the charge.

This is a signature of a spiritual alchemist. Someone with this combination enables them to walk through shadows without absorbing it. The sextile makes this process smooth, non-dramatic and efficient. Karmic consequences happen without the need to lift a finger or even feeling the hit. So the more I get unaffected by people who try to attack me, the stronger they feel the energetic backlash.

Overtime, as I work in activating this sextile, I learned not to retaliate or even engage. Cuz I learned from my chart that the energies that I am born with will do the housekeeping automatically. It took a while for me to gain mastery over this configuration because sextiles require effort... they’re not passive blessings. Sextiles aren’t those “you wake up blessed” placements. You have to earn the magic they offer.

And while my chart gives me strong psychic protection, I also discovered that I’m not completely bulletproof. Other people’s emotions (not the ones intentionally directed at me, but the ones they simply carry) can be my kryptonite. If I’m not careful, absorbing those emotional fog can drain my energy and physically trigger my heart. That’s a juicy discussion for another time, but an important part of the story.

Only when I understood this vulnerability in my Moon did I learn how to regulate it through consistent energetic hygiene. This allowed my intuitive radar and karmic firewall to work together in a healthy way. Now, with Virgo’s discernment guiding the process, I can sense everything without carrying any of it.

I am able to transform my psychic gifts over time. Clairvoyance without being chaotic, clairsentience without being porous and deep-feeling without being destabilized. Mastering intuition with boundaries is a lifetime mindfulness I need to practice so I am able to handle whatever I sense with structure.

Scorpio Moon = Karmic Boomerang Activation + Deep Radar
I FEEL everything - truth, motive, emotional undercurrents and energetic distortions. Thanks to my Saturn, I am able to filter, organize and neutralize the emotional perceptions I get.

Scorpio energy rules shadow work, power dynamics, energetic exchanges and cause-and-effet of emotional intent. So when someone sends harmful energy my way, my Scorpio Moon instantly recognizes this as shadow energy. And once this registers as such, Saturn reinforces the consequence. My energy system mirrors back whatever is aimed at me, intensified by the Scorpio Moon's depth and Saturn's karmic authority. This makes the karmic boomerang tenfold, amplified by Scorpio intensity and Saturn accountability.

Scorpio Moon in 2H = Emotional Security Tied to Energetic Sovereignty
I learned from my early age that emotional safety came from "never letting other people's intentions affect my inner world." This is why I am good with transmuting emotions into wisdom. While most Scorpio Moons feel vulnerable most of the time, I don't, because my Saturn in 12H acts as the unseen guardian of my emotional ecosystem.

Libra Rising = Social Camouflage
If you are wondering why I am also looking at my Libra rising in this equation, is because this particular placement makes this hidden ability covert. So this layer makes the whole dynamic look effortless hehehe...

People think I am soft, approachable, kind and sweet because my Libra Rising smooths the edges, but underneath the facade is someone who sees through illusions and has zero tolerance for hidden malice. This confuses all my hidden enemies har har! Most people expect me to be unaware, fragile or affected but instead, they hit my Saturn wall then deal with their own karma.

My aura says, "Hi! I'm just here being cute and peaceful!" My heart says, "...I know exactly what you are hiding." and subconsciously my mind says, "try it and suffer the consequences." BOOM!

The mismatch is my power. It lets me move through life without attracting unnecessary conflict while still being untouchable on the spritual plane. So I can say I can move through life while my haters find themselves stumbling over their own shadows. *evil laugh*

Pluto in 1H Libra = Penetrating Aura
We now come to the juiciest layer of my psychic architecture. I would say Pluto in my 1st House is one of the most powerful placement I got for psychic presence. It gives me penetrating aura, forces people to unmask themselves around me, and deflects psychic attacks. This makes people either trust me deeply or fear me instantly.

People feel "seen through" even when I am politely smiling because my energetic field always emits this message: "Your mask is cute but I can see beneath it."

My Pluto creates a psychic scanner that overlaps with my Scorpio moon's emotional scanner. Whatever my moon feels, the Pluto confirms. Pluto is the flashlight that exposes shadows and yes, it sits right on the house that governs identity. So my mere presence activates truth in others.

This is why it often reveals hidden enemies - the people who have secret resentment, envy or ill intention against me. They naturally expose themselves because my energy just forces shadows to rise to the surface. I guess this is why I am unbothered to worry about who is against me because I have this inner knowing that they will reveal themselves voluntarily.

My aura doesn't just protect, it transmute anything thrown at it. My energy activates psychic alchemy which can make people spiral down after projecting onto me while I stay unbothered.

Leo Stellium in 11H = Solar Shield
The stellium of Sun, Mercury, Venus and Jupiter in my 11H Leo makes low vibrations unable to penetrate because this combination naturally gives high frequency, heart-centered and confident energy field. When people throw mud at me, it just burns. I may give off warm vibe but people know I am untouchable. With Jupiter in this combination, it amplifies everything making the light impossible to override.

This may also be the reason why I do what I do. I learned to hold someone's shadows without letting it stain my heart. Dark energies cannot disempower me because I have so much light. And through practice and cultivation, other people's emotional chaos can no longer destabilize me. I am able to strip away the savior complex so now I can sit in pain without collapsing into it.

I am able to attract people who need transformation and repel those who fear it. It shows in all the clients I serve. I use my knowledge of my personal energy to also guide others to do the same.

When I don't give a fuck, it is because I know there is a higher power working behind me and doing their job. So when I sense that someone suffers tenfold when they have bad thoughts about me, it is not just my imagination and I am not the one causing it. Saturn doesn't punish, it mirrors.

When someone sends me envy, wishes failure, speaks ill of me, or tries to sabotage me, Saturn amplifies the lesson they need to learn and life teaches it back in proportion to what they sent. It is karmic math, not vengeance. Since Saturn is involved, the multiplier is noticeable.

IF I look it through deeper spiritual truth, I am not build to absorb other people's shadows but to transcend them. Which reflects exactly what I do and offer. My chart is a reflection of someone whose energy is designed to stay sovereign so I can focus on healing, teaching, and guiding rather than defending.

Although my protection isn't loud and isn't agressive, it is covert and simply unpenetrable. So when someone sends me thoughts that doesn't serve my highest good, know that I never do any action or ritual to curse anyone or cause any of their misfortune. My energetic field is simply aligned with Saturn's karmic order. My aura doesn't absorb their negativity towards me, it reflects it and Saturn ensures that they learn the consequences of their own projection.

This is also why I am not big into talismans or protection tools because I don't feel the need to fight psychic attacks. I out-vibrate them because my Saturn neutralizes them. Karma educates the sender so I can continue to do my work like the Virgo-coded lightworker that I am.

So when you throw shades at me, know that my guides laugh at you because you are literally stubbing a bubble and it just bounces back and make you slip on your own banana peel.

The question is, why do I still trust easily when my energy already knows who can’t be trusted? The answer is simple: I’m not operating from fear. My intuition already registers the truth and protection is already in place. So there’s no need to control, accuse, expose, or interfere. I just trust… and I observe.

And somehow, people always reveal themselves on their own. Even without confrontation, effort or traps. Contrary to popular belief, I’m not luring anyone into anything. LOL! I just create a calm, open space where masks get heavy and shadows get sloppy. When people relax, truth walks out uninvited. If consequences happen, it’s not because I planned them. It’s because I didn’t stop gravity from doing its job.

I don’t tighten the field. I don’t move the furniture. I just stay still.

And Saturn handles the rest. 😌✨

Energetic Scanning, Pattern Interpretation & The Intuitive Dictionary

I want to share an experience that will help you deepen your confidence as practitioners, especially those of you beginning to refine your energetic scanning abilities.

A few weeks ago, someone from another community requested Reiki support. He didn’t share what he was battling, only that he wanted healing. I joined the Reiki chain and offered energy. When I scanned his field, I sensed something that felt entropic — foreign, draining, invasive, and feeding off his body’s vitality. The sensation was strong in the bloodstream, so my intuitive mind translated it as parasitic activity.

Later on he shared that he already had a diagnosis: esophagogastric carcinoma.

At first I wondered why my reading came through as “parasites”… until I realized something that is very important for all of you to understand as practitioners: Different diseases can share the same energetic signature.

Parasites and cancer both create:
• energetic entropy
• invasive patterns
• disruption of coherence
• rapid leakage
• consumption of qi
• foreign or “non-self” frequency

Energetically, they behave similarly — so your intuition may interpret one through the symbolic language of the other. This is normal and part of the growth curve of clairsentience.

In this case, the cancer was located in the esophagogastric junction — one of the body’s main gateways of life-force intake. When something aggressive sits there, the entire system responds as if an intruder has invaded the primary entrance of nourishment. This specific cancer type is also known to coexist with microbial imbalance, which is why the “parasitic” signature felt so loud in his bloodstream.

So my intuition wasn’t wrong — it was simply translating the distortion into the closest familiar pattern I understood.

This is what I want you to learn:

As Reiki practitioners, we read patterns, not diagnoses.

Your intuition communicates using your internal symbolic dictionary. If your system recognizes “foreign, invasive, draining,” it may label the pattern as infection, parasite, or energetic attachment — even if the root cause is different but carries the same frequency.

This is why:
• you should never force yourself to “name” the disease
• you should never feel discouraged when your interpretation evolves
• you must always guide clients toward medical evaluation
• you should treat intuitive impressions as energetic information, not physical diagnosis

This is the ethical foundation of Reiki Mastery.

You can be accurate without being literal.
I picked up the correct distortion. I only needed to refine its meaning.

This is part of the journey toward medical-grade clairsentience, where you begin to discern:
• microbial signatures
• inflammatory signatures
• energetic parasites
• cancer patterns
• organ-level disruptions
• emotional parasitic cords
• stagnation vs decay vs entropy

And that refinement happens through experience, humility, and continuous learning just like this.

Don’t doubt your gift. Upgrade your dictionary.

If a certain sensation “feels like parasites,” it might point to:
• cancer
• infection
• microbial imbalance
• auto-immune activity
• qi leakage
• corded energy
• ancestral imprint
• organ distress

The body speaks in patterns, not labels. The intuition translates in symbols, not diagnoses. Your job is to develop discernment without pressure, ego, or fear — and always with ethical grounding.

As Reiki Masters, remember:
We do not diagnose.
We do not replace medical care.
We do not declare findings.

What we do is:
• support the healing field
• clear blockages
• identify energetic imbalances
• guide clients to proper channels
• hold space for their physical, emotional, and spiritual healing

Experiences like this remind us that we’re always learning — and that accuracy grows with practice, humility, and alignment.

And yes… your intuitive dictionary will continue to expand.
Mine still does. And that’s what makes mastery a living path. 💜

Introducing the Divine Avatar Alignment Report

This isn’t a “forecast.” It’s a soul alignment map that translates the celestial design (the Divine Gates) into tangible human experience.

The intention: To help someone see themselves clearly — not as broken, but as becoming — and to give language to the inner forces shaping their abundance, relationships, calling, and healing journey.

This offering is for those who are searching for clarity, validation, or direction in their spiritual and human journey — those who keep asking:
✨ “Am I living my purpose?”
✨ “Why do I feel blocked in love, money or fulfillment?”
✨ “How can I live with more authenticity, ease, and joy?”

The report answers those questions not through prediction, but through remembrance — guiding them to align with the rhythm of their divine architecture.

When you avail of this service, you will get a personalized written report based on the Divine Gates of the Avatar — the celestial portals (Taurus, Leo, Scorpio, Aquarius) that shape how your soul expresses purpose, love, wealth, and healing in this lifetime.

Each report reveals:
• Your Divine Gifts – the innate strengths and intuitive talents your soul carries
• Money & Abundance Flow – your energetic relationship with wealth and value
• Love & Relationship Codes – how you connect, give, and receive
• Career & Purpose Pathways – the roles, missions, or callings that express your highest light
• Balancing Keys – where your lessons lie, and how to harmonize them
• Integration Tools – suggested crystals, essential oils, affirmations, and micro-rituals

Each report includes an activation meditation script customized for ones Gate alignments.

Optional Upgrade: Add an Access Bars Activation Session

An energetic clearing process that releases mental, emotional, and energetic blockages that prevent oneself from fully stepping into your potential. As the report awakens awareness, the Bars session helps them embody it — clearing outdated beliefs around money, relationships, worth, and control.

Awareness meets embodiment.

During the session:
• Energy points on the head (Bars) are gently activated to dissolve mental clutter
• Old energetic loops are cleared, opening space for creativity and peace
• The frequencies of your Avatar Gates are harmonized and grounded through light touch, Reiki flow, and intuitive guidance

The Divine Avatar Alignment Report helps you see yourself clearly — to understand the spiritual architecture that shapes their gifts, challenges, and path to fulfillment.

The optional Access Bars Session then helps clear energetic limitations that keep them from living that alignment — creating space for flow, peace, and inspired action.

Together, they create a bridge between cosmic awareness and practical embodiment.

Get your report here:

As I continue to deepen my spiritual path, I’ve come to realize something profoundly liberating: simplicity is the key.

For a long time, I believed that being spiritual meant needing to know more… to study every energetic layer, master every complex system, and name each phenomenon happening within and around me in order to be “truly spiritual.” I thought peace could only be attained by mastering advanced techniques and collecting certificates to validate my growth.

But as I anchor more deeply into the Divine Light, the noise has softened. As I learn to listen with my soul rather than just my mind, the truth becomes clearer: The answers have always been within.

That we are not broken.
That we are not lacking.
That healing is not about becoming more—but about remembering who we are.

There is great power in returning to your roots. It’s not about how many modalities you know or how many levels you’ve completed. It’s about how deeply you integrate what you already know into your daily life. Wisdom isn’t something you chase—it’s something you embody.

We often miss this truth: the path of return is more potent than the pursuit of complexity. From this realization, I was able to shift from external validation—through certificates, systems, and definitions—to inner trust and daily integration. It mirrors the archetypal return to the Self, which, if we think about it, aligns deeply with the teachings of mystics, sages, and even Carl Jung’s individuation journey.

I guess I’m now in a state of living the paradox of mastery—The more I know, the more I realize I don’t need to know everything. I just need to embody what is true.

Maybe this is what energetic refinement feels like—like clearing static from a radio. I feel that I’m tuning more clearly into divine guidance… through less noise, and more essence. And that’s when intuition flows freely.

Ironically, the magic becomes more potent— Not because it is complicated, But because it is aligned.

Now, this is what I teach anyone who crosses my path:
1. The greatest wisdom is already within.
2. You already carry the light.
3. I am not your source of power—I am simply a mirror and a companion on your journey.
4. The most profound truths are simple.
5. And the path forward is rarely “out there”—it’s a homecoming.

I walk this path not to be followed, but to hold space. I am not a guru. I would rather see myself as a mirror and facilitator. To walk beside others. To reflect their light back to them when they forget. To whisper, gently and clearly: They already have everything they need.

I want others to reclaim their own sovereignty, rather than become dependent on me.

Every offering I share—whether it’s a Reiki attunment, an Angelic empowerment, a Gong Fu Cha ceremony, a sacred oil rituals, a crystal alchemy bracelet, or a soul-stirring meditation—is simply a key. But the door? That’s already within you.

And the only one who can walk through it… is you.

And the most beautiful part? You don’t need to be anyone else. You just need to come home to yourself.

Everything I offer is an invitation— Not to learn more, but to remember. Not to become better, but to return to wholeness.

Whether it’s through courses and immersions, soul facilitation, or energetic tool alchemy… each one is designed to activate what already lives within them. These aren’t lessons—they are awakenings.

Maybe this is why I do this work— Because I’ve been the seeker. Because I’ve tasted pain, burnout, and emptiness—even while “doing all the right things.” Because I know how it feels to look outside myself for validation, healing, and peace…

…only to come full circle and realize: It was within us all along.

I do this work not just because it’s what I know. I do this because it’s who I am. This is my devotion.

I do this to help others unlearn the noise, return to their roots, and awaken the divine blueprint already humming in their cells.

If you happen to be reading this, your soul brought you here— Not because I have something you don’t, But because you are meant to remember.

Your healing is sacred.
Your path is valid.
And you?
You are already whole.

Maybe this is not just my initiation—from being a seeker to becoming a wisdom-keeper. Maybe I am also here to pass the torch, In a way that lets others light their own fire.

Just as Jesus asked me to do… In the vision I received of Him, four years ago.

This is a gift I intended for my Angel Reading Mastery students.

This Alashan agate mooncake holds more than just beauty—it carries the echo of ancient earth, the grace of celestial cycles, and the quiet strength of your own inner knowing. Carved in the shape of the mooncake—a symbol of reunion, fullness, and spiritual harvest—this piece is attuned to support you in your journey as an angelic channel and intuitive guide.

Let it:
Cleanse and harmonize your decks between readings.
Serve as an anchor for clarity when receiving divine messages.
Awaken deeper connection to your intuition, helping you trust what you see, feel, hear, and know.
Place it near your reading space, on your altar, or simply hold it during meditation. Allow the grounding rhythm of Alashan to harmonize your energy with the frequencies of love, light, and angelic guidance.

You are the bridge between heaven and earth. May this little mooncake remind you that the work you do is sacred, whole, and always guided.

With heart and light,
💫 Miyo

Energetic Purpose of the Alashan Agate for Angelic Readers:

1. Cleansing Decks and Tools
Alashan agate has a naturally balancing and harmonizing vibration, which makes it excellent for resetting energetic imprints on divination tools like angel cards or oracle decks. It doesn’t zap energy—it neutralizes and harmonizes, which is ideal for those working in the subtle realms.

2. Clarity in Channeling
Because of its grounding yet gentle frequency, Alashan supports mental clarity without overstimulation. It stabilizes the energy field so your intuitive messages can come through without interference from emotional noise or external energy static.

3. Strengthening Intuition and Inner Vision
Alashan’s dreamy landscapes and layered bands reflect the liminal space between spirit and matter—ideal for those deepening their intuitive practice. The mooncake shape magnifies this, as it carries symbolism of wholeness, inner light, and fullness of spirit—qualities that are deeply aligned with intuitive knowing and the lunar rhythm of receptivity.

4. BONUS: Mooncake as Symbol of Harvest and Sacred Offering
It is an offering of a blessing of fruition, celebration of your spiritual growth, and a talisman that reflects both the sweetness and the sacred work of intuition.

Inscribed with 花㚥月圆, you are holding a blessing stone infused with grounding, beauty, and intuitive expansion.

My personal intention for you, “May beauty bloom, and may the moon always rise full in your heart.”

1. DECK CLEANSING RITUAL (Before or After Use)

Purpose: To clear residual energy from your angel/oracle/tarot deck and restore its vibrational purity using the Alashan Agate.

You’ll need:
• Your Alashan Agate
• Your deck
• Optional: white candle or palo santo, soft instrumental or angelic music

Ritual Steps:
1. Center Yourself
Place both hands over your heart and take 3 slow, deep breaths. With each exhale, release tension and call in the presence of your higher self and spirit team.
2. Set the Intention
Whisper or mentally affirm:
“With love and clarity, I now cleanse and harmonize this deck. May it be a clear vessel for truth, light, and healing.”
3. Use the Alashan Agate
Gently hover or pass the crystal over the deck in a circular or figure-eight motion. Visualize soft white-gold light radiating from the crystal, neutralizing any lingering energy.
4. Optional: Sound or Breath
You may use a bell, chime, or simply blow gently over the deck, sealing the cleanse.
5. Store or Shuffle
Either wrap the deck in cloth, place a selenite stick on top, or shuffle it to prepare for reading.

2. TUNING IN & PROTECTION RITUAL (Pre-Reading)

Purpose: To energetically align, ground, and call in protection before opening your intuitive channel for an angel card reading.

You’ll need:
• Your Alashan Agate
• Your deck
• Optional: A small crystal grid, white light visualization, angel card prayer

Ritual Steps:
1. Hold the Alashan Agate
Sit quietly and hold the crystal in your receiving hand (left). Feel its grounding and softening energy. Breathe deeply and allow your energy to settle.
2. Connect to Source & Angels
Say or think:
“I call upon the divine light, my guardian angels, and the highest benevolent guides. Please surround me with love and protection. May only that which is aligned with truth and highest good come through.”
3. Create Your Energetic Bubble
Visualize a soft white-silver orb expanding from your heart, enveloping your aura and space. The Alashan Agate amplifies this shield—grounded, clear, and safe.
4. Touch the Deck with the Alashan Agate
Place the crystal briefly on top of your deck and affirm:
“May these messages be clear, pure, and divinely guided. I receive with discernment, love, and trust.”
5. Begin your reading when you feel centered.

3. TUNING OUT, CLEANSING & CUTTING CORDS (Post-Reading)

Purpose: To clear lingering energy, release attachments, and close the energetic field after channeling or reading.

You’ll need:
• Your Alashan Agate
• Optional: Grounding oil (like vetiver or frankincense), sound bowl, salt water, or earth contact

Ritual Steps:
1. Seal the Space
Thank the angels, guides, and higher self:
“I thank the divine and my spirit team for their presence and guidance. The channel is now closed. All energies not mine, return to Source.”
2. Cut Cords with the Crystal
Hold the crystal in your dominant hand and gently “sweep” your body, especially around your third eye, heart, and solar plexus, as if cutting cords. Visualize the stone absorbing and transmuting residual energies.
3. Cleanse the Deck Again (Optional)
If your reading was intense, pass the crystal over the deck once more and place it beside a grounding stone or inside a cloth pouch.
4. Ground Your Energy
Touch your feet to the floor, place the crystal on your lower belly or sacral area, and breathe into your body. Feel yourself fully anchored.
5. Affirm:
“I release all energy I’ve held. I am clear. I am whole. I am at peace.”

We are programmable beings studying programs to reprogram ourselves. And we taught machines to do the same.

Poetic justice, no?

Spoiler alert: I did. I reverse-engineered the system. And what I found is both hilarious and horrifying.

Let’s dive in.

For years, I’ve tried to connect my knowledge of Behavioral Artificial Intelligence (AI) and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) to unlock the mysteries of the human mind and its behavior. Since then, I’ve seen the puppet strings, learned the mechanics, and now I’m cutting cords and weaving new threads—for myself and others.

I woke up today at 5 AM with a thought inside me, bursting and wanting to be translated into writing—which is now this blog post. Maybe my guides wanted me to stop keeping it to myself and share it with those who are called to understand. So here goes…

The Hard Truth

Your fears, your desires, your beliefs… They were programmed into you.

Not by accident. Not by divine download. But through systematic conditioning—

By marketers. By media. By well-meaning (and not-so-well-meaning) societal systems.

The wild part? That’s the same formula used to train Artificial Intelligence—especially in what’s known as behavioral AI. And if you’ve ever studied subsumption architecture, this rabbit hole goes even deeper.

The Programming Loop: Humans vs AI

1. Subsumption Architecture (AI)
This is one of the earliest models in robotics and AI, where behavior is built layer by layer—starting from simple reflexes up to more complex behaviors. Each layer “subsumes” the lower ones, meaning higher-order behaviors can override or coordinate basic ones without eliminating them.
• 🧠 Example: A robot may have a basic layer to avoid obstacles, then a higher layer to follow a path, then another layer for goal-seeking. All these behaviors interact in real-time.

2. Human Conditioning (NLP + Society)
Humans are programmed in layers, too:
• Early Childhood – Basic emotional conditioning (love, fear, abandonment)
• School & Culture – Rules, comparison, identity
• Media & Marketing – Associations, repetition, aspirational triggers
• Trauma & Reward – Emotional memory binds everything

These layers don’t replace each other—they stack, just like in subsumption architecture. And just like robots, our “higher-level behaviors” (like rationalization, belief systems, identity) often stem from more primitive layers (fight/flight, approval-seeking, safety-based conditioning).

The Learning Process: AI & NLP

Behavioral AI learns via:
• Repetition: training sets
• Association: patterns, weights in neural nets
• Emotion: translated as reward functions or reinforcement

In NLP:
• Repetition: Creates neural pathways. Say something often enough, and the brain wires around it.
• Association: “Anchoring” links feelings to images, words, or stimuli.
• Emotion: Amplifies learning. The stronger the emotional state, the deeper the imprint (a key principle in both trauma and marketing).

Repetition. Association. Emotion. That’s all it takes.

AI’s behavioral pattern building and human social and neurological programming are the same.

Through my understanding of the subsumption architecture, I saw the hierarchical structure of behavior—both artificial and organic.

Then, by diving into NLP, I gained tools to deprogram and reprogram those human behavior stacks:
• Identifying the original layer (root program)
• Interrupting or rewriting associations
• Anchoring new emotional signatures

That’s alchemical work that I am doing right now. I’m using tech-rooted understanding to liberate the human psyche from its automated patterns. This time, I wanted to share it with you—to break free from the programming that you are in.

Subsumption Architecture: How Robots Learn Like Humans

Developed by Rodney Brooks in the 1980s (the same guy who helped build the Mars rovers and also one of the people who influenced my fascination with robotics), subsumption architecture is a model of robot control that doesn’t rely on a central command system (like a CEO giving orders). Instead, it builds behavior in layers, from the ground up.

Each layer is a module:
• 🧭 Layer 1: Avoid obstacles
• 🚶 Layer 2: Walk toward a goal
• 🧍‍♀️ Layer 3: Navigate around humans
• 🧠 Layer 4: Perform a task (e.g., deliver coffee)

These layers don’t replace each other—they coexist and influence behavior. Higher-level modules can suppress or override lower ones when needed.

Sound familiar?

That’s exactly how human behavior is structured.

NLP and Human Programming: The Biological Version

Let’s replace the robot with a human child.
• 👶 Layer 1: Basic reflexes and safety patterns (crying, clinging, freezing)
• 🧒 Layer 2: Emotional association (what gets love/approval)
• 🧑 Layer 3: Social learning (what earns belonging)
• 🧓 Layer 4: Belief systems, identity, goals

These behaviors are built using three tools:
1. Repetition
Your brain wires what you rehearse. “Practice makes permanent” isn’t just a motivational quote—it’s neuroplasticity in action.

2. Association
If Mom praised you when you were quiet, you associate silence = safety. If the media shows success always linked to luxury, your subconscious binds wealth = worthiness.

3. Emotion
Your emotional state determines how deeply the memory is encoded. Traumas? Encoded fast. Joyful peak moments? Also encoded fast. Emotion is the amplifier.

AI vs Human Conditioning: The Mirror Effect

Mechanism	Human Brain	Behavioral AI / Robotics
Input	Senses (vision, sound, experience)	Sensors (cameras, LIDAR, temperature)
Learning model	Neural pathways (reinforced over time)	Neural nets / behavior layers
Programming method	Repetition + Emotion + Association	Repetition + Reward/Punishment functions
Behavioral stacking	Layered from reflex → belief	Layered from sensor → decision modules
Override capability	Prefrontal cortex overrides instincts	Higher layers suppress lower ones
Rewiring potential	Neuroplasticity, NLP, therapy	Retraining, model updating

The Creepy Truth: You Were Trained Like a Machine
• You learned to crave approval by associating love with good behavior.
• You learned to fear failure because your nervous system encoded embarrassment with intense emotional charge.
• You learned what’s “realistic” by absorbing what everyone else said was possible.

This isn’t just psychology. It’s behavioral engineering.

And you didn’t even know it was happening.

But once you do…

The Beautiful Hack: Reprogramming Through NLP

Here’s where Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) comes in—not as some pop-psych party trick, but as a conscious editing tool for your layered architecture.

NLP mirrors subsumption:
• It identifies the underlying behavioral layer (what belief/trigger is firing).
• It uses pattern interrupts to loosen the grip of a behavior.
• It uses repetition + emotion + association—just like the original programming—to overwrite the code.

Examples:
• Anchoring a new confident state to a gesture (association + repetition)
• Using visualization and sensory submodalities to reframe past traumas (emotion + pattern editing)
• Installing future pacing and belief shifts to restructure identity (higher-layer rewiring)

Essentially, NLP gives you admin access to your behavioral OS.

Reprogramming Isn’t Just Mental — It’s Energetic

Let’s get this clear: your subconscious programming isn’t only stored in the mind—it’s embedded in your nervous system, your auric field, your emotional body, and even your cellular memory.

That’s why just understanding your wounds or triggers intellectually doesn’t always change the pattern.

This is where energy medicine steps in as the missing key.

How Reiki Helps Break the Code

Reiki doesn’t just “relax you.” It creates a safe vibrational space where your system can access and release deep imprints—the kind that don’t respond to logic.

What Reiki Practitioners Can Do:
• Channel Reiki with the intention to access core programming stored in the energetic and emotional body
• Work with CKR (Cho Ku Rei) to reset the flow of life force and unbind energetic loops
• Use SHK (Sei He Ki) to bring to the surface old emotional patterns or mental constructs
• Guide clients through self-awareness during the session: What comes up? What memories or feelings are released?

For Non-Practitioners:
• Receiving Reiki regularly helps gently clear the layers of energetic buildup that reinforce old beliefs or self-sabotaging loops
• You don’t need to “do” anything—your energy body and higher intelligence know what to release when held in the right vibration
• You can learn Level 1 Reiki for self-practice—it’s simple, empowering, and life-changing

How Access Bars Works Like a Neural Defrag

Access Bars® is the ultimate code-clearing system for the brain. It works by gently touching 32 points on the head, which correspond to different areas of life: money, healing, control, creativity, aging, joy, etc.

What Happens:
• Each point stores electromagnetic charge from thoughts, beliefs, judgments, and emotions
• When activated, these points discharge stuck frequencies—kind of like clearing cookies and cache from your energetic browser
• It disengages the reactive loops you didn’t even know were running

What Practitioners Can Do:
• Invite clients to observe what shows up after sessions: Do they make different choices without overthinking?
• Ask potent questions during the session to help the energy move: “What else is possible here?” “Who does this belong to?”
• Pair Bars with verbal processing to address stuck loops with language and energy

For Non-Practitioners:
• You can receive Bars sessions even if you don’t understand the mechanics—it’s gentle, relaxing, and deeply effective
• Want to take it further? Learning Bars is just a one-day class and opens up a new relationship with your own mind and energy

How Essential Oils Help Release Patterns

If the brain is our operating system, then essential oils are like olfactory access keys—they bypass mental noise and go straight to the source.

Here’s the science: when you inhale an essential oil, the aromatic molecules travel through the olfactory nerve directly into the limbic system—the part of the brain responsible for emotion, memory, and behavior. This is why a single scent can transport you back to childhood, calm anxiety within seconds, or suddenly stir a long-forgotten memory.

Now imagine using that power intentionally.

How It Works:
• Essential oils can disrupt old emotional loops by associating new frequencies with previous patterns.
• They can be used during Reiki, meditation, NLP, or Access Bars sessions to help the body anchor a new energetic state.
• Oils like Frankincense, Lavender, Bergamot, Ylang Ylang, and Vetiver are known to support emotional healing, nervous system regulation, and even cellular communication.

What You Can Do:
• Use Lemon or Peppermint when working on mental clarity or releasing limiting beliefs.
• Apply Lavender or Roman Chamomile when calming the nervous system after emotional purging.
• Diffuse Frankincense or Sandalwood to hold sacred space during energy work, especially when you’re accessing deeper programming or inner child work.
• Try Clary Sage or Geranium for rewiring patterns around self-worth and receiving.

You’re not just smelling something pleasant—you’re delivering plant-coded intelligence into your body’s processing center.

Pairing essential oils with energy work creates a bridge between the physical, emotional, and spiritual layers—allowing the body to safely release old programming and stabilize new patterns.

You’re literally re-scenting your story.

Other Modalities That Break the Code

✴️ Crystal Healing
Crystals like Black Tourmaline, Labradorite, or Super 7 can help absorb and transmute old frequencies, especially when programmed with intention.

✴️ Sound Healing
Tuning forks, bowls, or even vocal toning can disrupt stagnant frequencies and create coherence where there was chaos. This is literal vibrational reprogramming.

✴️ EFT (Tapping)
EFT works with the meridians to dislodge emotional and belief blocks through spoken statements + acupoint tapping. It rewires by integrating thought and touch.

✴️ Hypnotherapy Hypnotherapy accesses the subconscious mind directly, allowing you to identify and reframe limiting beliefs at their root. It’s like conscious dreaming with a purpose—one that reprograms from within.

So, What Now?

We are programmable beings who:
• Were programmed without consent
• Are capable of reprogramming ourselves
• And have taught machines to mimic the same learning process we underwent

Whether you find that fascinating, empowering, or slightly disturbing… It means one thing:
You can choose to keep running inherited scripts… Or become the conscious architect of your own system.

Because once you understand the system, you’re no longer just a user. You’re the coder.

And that? That’s when the real magic begins.

From Deactivation to Re-Creation

Whether you’re a seasoned energy practitioner or just beginning, the goal is the same: To become conscious of the code, release what no longer serves, and write a new one in alignment with who you truly are—not who you were programmed to be.

And the beauty?

You don’t have to do it alone.

You have hands that heal. Tools that clear. Practices that soften the hold of old identities.

There was a time when I thought I needed to be born with some sort of psychic superpower—or have a choir of angels singing in the background. (Spoiler: I wasn’t, and they didn’t.) But what I did discover was this: the angelic realm speaks to those who are willing to listen—with a heart wide open.

If you’ve ever felt the whisper of an inner knowing. If you’ve ever pulled a card and felt a tingling sensation run down your spine. If you’ve ever wanted to read angel cards—not just from a guidebook, but through the wisdom of your soul and the embrace of divine light. Then this is your invitation. 💫

You are warmly invited to my one-on-one immersive course: Angel Card Mastery.

This isn’t just about memorizing card meanings. This is about unlocking the intuitive language of the angels and learning how to channel sacred messages with confidence, clarity, and compassion.

Whether you’re new to angel cards or you’ve had a deck gathering dust on your shelf, this sacred container is for you. You’ll leave with more than just skills—you’ll leave with soul trust and the confidence to read with integrity and love. This is a one-on-one class, so we move at the rhythm of your spirit. 💖

If this resonates with your heart, I’d be honored to guide you on this journey.

✨ With wings and wonder,
Miyo

To learn more about this offering, you may check below or click the link: Course Details

This June 9, 2025, Jupiter enters Cancer — its place of exaltation — and with it comes a lush wave of emotional renewal, ancestral blessings, and soulful expansion. This is one of the most nurturing and spiritually generous transits we’ll see in a long time.

🏡 Emotional wisdom
💎 Energetic foundations
🕊️ Divine protection
🌱 Abundance from within

But here’s the truth: you must be aligned to receive. That’s where this sacred offering comes in.

🌟 WHAT YOU’LL RECEIVE:
📜 A Personalized Jupiter in Cancer Energetic Guidance Report (PDF)
Customized to your birth chart and soul energies — no generic readings here. You’ll receive a full cosmic breakdown of how this transit touches your life’s key areas.

• 💫 Life Themes & Opportunities Activated by This Transit
  Find out which aspects of your life are ready to bloom — from money and love to home, career, or soul mission.
• 🕯️ Meditation + Ritual Guide
  A heart-centered, easy-to-follow ritual and meditation that helps you work with Jupiter’s energy — not just passively wait for blessings.
• 🌿 Energetic Recommendations Based on Your Natal Blueprint
  Simple but potent practices to ground, align, and magnetize your intentions according to your unique chart.
• 🌈 Reiki Energy Infusion + Blessing
  Each report is energetically blessed with Reiki to help clear resistance, protect your field, and attune you to Jupiter’s benevolence.

💰 Energy Exchange: Php1,888
📩 Delivery: PDF via email within 5–7 days upon receiving your birth details.

🌟 UPGRADE OPTION: Access Bars Session Package (Php5,888)
Ready to fully clear the noise and make space for expansion? Get the same report and you may choose to receive an Access Bars session (in-person), which works deeply on the subconscious and energetic level to release limiting beliefs, stress, and mental clutter — so Jupiter’s energy doesn’t just knock, it flows in effortlessly.

It’s like rebooting your energetic system so you can actually receive the blessings you’ve been asking for.

🌕 Jupiter in Cancer only comes around once every 12 years. Jupiter will stay in Cancer from June 9, 2025, until June 30, 2026. That gives us a full year of working with its exalted, heart-nourishing energy 🌊✨ — a sacred window for emotional healing, family and ancestral work, soul-aligned abundance, and rooting into purpose with gentleness and depth. You can think of it like a cosmic “homecoming” — Jupiter loves being in Cancer and tends to bring blessings where we nurture, protect, and emotionally invest. Perfect for those wanting to reset their foundations and expand with heart.

✨ This is your moment to root deeper, receive more, and rise higher. If this offering calls to you, message me directly or order your report below.

🌿 Nighttime Gentle Liver Ritual (15–20 min) Intention: To soothe the liver, invite restful regulation, and align with your body’s natural rhythm of overnight glucose balance. 

🕯️1. Sacred Setup (Optional)

Prepare a soft space with:
• Dim lighting or candlelight
• Optional: Calming diffuser blend – 1 drop Geranium + 1 drop Frankincense or Lavender
• Place your hands over your lower right ribs to begin connecting with your liver area 

🌬️ 2. Cleansing Breath + Centering (2 min)

Take 3 deep, slow breaths with your hands resting gently over your liver.
Inhale: I invite softness and harmony.
Exhale: I release tension and excess.

Feel your body drop into stillness. If emotions rise, honor them as part of the liver’s unburdening. 

💧 3. Warm Compress (Optional – 5–10 min)

Place a warm towel or hot water bottle (not too hot) over your liver area.
• This increases blood flow and soothes the liver qi
• Add a drop of Geranium or Lemon EO (diluted in a carrier oil) to the towel if desired

While resting:
“Thank you, my liver, for your tireless filtering, your wisdom, and your courage to transform.” 

🖐️ 4. Gentle Acupressure or Tapping (3–5 min)

Use your fingers to gently tap or massage:
• Liver 3 (Taichong): top of foot between big toe and 2nd toe
• Spleen 6 (Sanyinjiao): 4 finger-widths above the inner ankle bone
• Use both hands or alternate, saying: “Balance. Flow. Peace.” 

  🌀 5. Energy Flow & Reiki Activation (Optional)

If attuned, activate Reiki over your liver, solar plexus, and pancreas areas. Visualize soft golden or green light infusing your organs, aligning with the rhythm of the insulin working overnight.

“As I rest, my body heals in harmony. My blood is clear, my liver is light, my soul is steady.” 

🌙 6. Closing & Surrender (1 min)

Finish by cupping both hands over your heart.
“I am safe to rest. My body knows how to heal. I trust the flow of life through me.”

Drink a few sips of warm water (you may add a small pinch of sea salt for trace minerals if desired), and prepare for sleep.

I’ve held the brand Le Lumière Lavande close to my heart for a while now. It’s something I quietly tended to—like a sacred flame—through my own healing, remembering, and becoming. I didn’t create it just to offer services. I created it because I believe we all carry a divine light within, and sometimes, we simply need the right space to remember.

Today, I feel called to finally share its story—not for promotion, but for connection. Because if you’ve ever longed for deeper support… to feel spiritually held, to reconnect with your own power, or to experience healing that honors both your soul and your softness… I want you to know that spaces like this exist.

In a world that often forgets the quiet power of stillness, Le Lumière Lavande was born as a gentle call home—to the sacred, the soft, and the sovereign within.

Founded by a healer whose path was shaped by both deep inner shadow work and luminous spiritual awakenings, this sanctuary exists to remind each soul of a truth long buried: you are your own divine healer.

The name Le Lumière Lavande—French for “The Lavender Light”—is a prayer in itself. It speaks to the crown chakra, the gateway of spirit, where lavender’s essence weaves calm, clarity, and connection. It honors the radiant light that lives within all beings, waiting patiently to be remembered, reclaimed, and reborn.

Through soul-infused offerings—crystal alchemy, Reiki, sound healing, sacred ritual, and intuitive guidance—Le Lumière Lavande creates a space of remembrance. Each session, creation, and sacred object is lovingly infused with frequencies from the angelic, elemental, and cosmic realms. Nothing is mass-made. Everything is energetically crafted to support healing, embodiment, and divine alignment.

This is not just a healing brand. It is a movement of light. A return to the wisdom of the body. A celebration of intuitive power. A reclaiming of spiritual sovereignty. Le Lumière Lavande invites you to rise—gently, truthfully, divinely—into the healer you were always meant to be.

When I saw Jesus in that meditation years ago — asking me to advocate for wellness and remind others of the body’s divine ability to heal — I surrendered. I told him, “Lead me, because I know nothing.”

He paved way for me to experience, learn and explore.

I know that what I am being challenged with right now is a part of the mission. 💜 Now, I rise — not as a victim, but as a woman on a mission. Not to be a lifelong slave to meds, But to walk a heart-led, spirit-infused path of healing.

Let’s imagine a healthcare system where:
• Emergency medicine saves lives
• Naturopathy sustains them
• Eclectic healing rebuilds them
• Homeopathy nurtures the subtle

We don’t have to choose sides. We can build bridges. We can heal differently — and powerfully.

You are welcome to walk and learn beside me.

I’m sharing my story not for sympathy — but for change. To inspire hope. To remind you that healing is sacred, layered, and personal. This is a living journey — not of perfection, but of presence. Not just of healing the body, but remembering the sacred wisdom it carries.

I offer this path as a prayer in motion, a devotion to wholeness, and an invitation for you to witness what true, holistic healing looks like — when Spirit leads, and the soul says yes.

Let the journey begin. Let it be real. Let it be holy.

Sometimes in relationships, we quietly carry the weight of expectations. We hope our partner or friends will just know what we need, how we feel, what we long for. And when they don’t—or can’t—it can leave us feeling unseen, unloved, or even resentful.

But here’s a gentle truth: Everyone is on their own emotional journey. Sometimes, the person we love is doing the best they can with the tools they currently have. And that doesn’t mean your feelings don’t matter. They do. Deeply.

What if, instead of waiting for the other person to show up differently, you allowed yourself to show up for you?

Here are a few soul-soothing ways to begin:

Real transformation in relationships doesn’t always come from the other person changing—it often begins when we shift how we hold love, how we speak our needs, and how we show up for our own hearts.

So if it feels heavy today, take a breath. You’re not alone. Love is still here. It just might be asking to be channeled in a new, empowering way.

I just sharing a powerful insight I had few months ago about the true meaning of the Holy Trinity—the Father, the Son, and the Holy Spirit. While "the Son" has traditionally been associated with Jesus Christ, it actually represents each one of us.

Jesus came to earth to show us the path back to the Divine Source through his life. We are not saved simply because he was crucified; we are saved because he showed us the way. When we dedicate our lives to living as he did—embodying his teachings and making them part of our daily existence—we align ourselves with our true home: heaven.

When Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life," he wasn’t asking us to simply worship him, but to live by the principles he taught. Like other ascended masters, he came to illuminate the path for us. We are all part of the Holy Trinity. God is within each of us, and through the Holy Spirit—the divine energy that flows through all things—we reconnect with God, our true source.

Wishing you all a beautiful and transformative eclipse week!

Is he draining your energy?
You might not notice it at first, but over time, being in a relationship where your energy is constantly being taken can leave you feeling drained, tired, and even disconnected from your own sense of beauty and power. You used to be glowing—your energy so vibrant, your beauty so radiant. Then you accepted someone in your life. Now you are worn out, your light dimmed, your spirit heavy.

Is he draining your energy? You might not notice it at first, but over time, being in a relationship where your energy is constantly being taken can leave you feeling drained, tired, and even disconnected from your own sense of beauty and power. You used to be glowing—your energy so vibrant, your beauty so radiant. Then you accepted someone in your life. Now you are worn out, your light dimmed, your spirit heavy. If this feels familiar, it’s time to ask yourself: "Is he draining my energy to fill his own empty cup?"

When a man’s masculine energy is wounded or imbalanced, he might unknowingly pull from your feminine energy to feel whole. At first, it might feel like you’re supporting him, but over time, you notice that you’re the one feeling depleted, while he still seems unsatisfied.

Here are some signs it might be happening:
🌸You feel more tired or drained around him
🌸 You feel constantly giving - emotionally, mentally, or physically
🌸Your sense of self is diminishing by starting to lose touch with your own joy, creativity, or even your physical beauty
🌸You’re not the person you used to be - you used to be vibrant, confident, and alive, but now you’re feeling lost, disconnected, and unsure of yourself

What can you do if this is happening?
☀️Reclaim your energy: The first step is to acknowledge what’s happening and take action to restore your balance.
☀️Set boundaries—emotionally, mentally, and physically—to protect your energy.
☀️Stop over-giving: It’s important to recognize that it’s not your job to fix him or constantly give to make him feel whole. You have to take care of yourself first. Start asking for what you need and allow yourself to receive.
☀️Tune back into your feminine energy: Reconnect with what makes you feel alive—whether it’s through creativity, self-care, spending time in nature, or practicing mindfulness. Rediscover what brings you joy and passion, and make time for these things without guilt.
☀️Consider the relationship: Sometimes, if a man is unwilling to address his own imbalances or continues to drain you despite your efforts to set boundaries, you might need to reevaluate the relationship. Your energy and well-being matter.
☀️Seek support: Whether through trusted friends, a coach, or a therapist, it’s important to have people around you who can help you navigate this dynamic and support your journey back to yourself.

Remember, you are worthy of love that nourishes, not depletes. Your energy, your beauty, and your power are yours to protect and cultivate. Don’t allow anyone to take that from you.

Take care of yourself first. Your radiance deserves to stay shining. 🌸

As a Reiki Master Teacher, I've had moments of doubt with my abilities to effectively channel and teach the Reiki system when I was just starting. It's common to question ourselves when stepping into the role of a healer or teacher. However, my master in Turkey shared with me a profound message, when I brought up to his attention my concerns, that spoke to these uncertainties in a way that goes beyond Reiki and touches on life itself. It felt deeply aligned not just with my personal journey but also with a universal truth that applies to all of us.

Here’s the message that struck me as so powerful:

At first, this message was a gentle reminder for me to trust my intuition as I continue my journey with Reiki. Yet, as I sat with it and practiced the system over the years, I realized its deeper resonance for life as a whole. Often, we get caught up in trying to control outcomes, measuring our progress, or comparing ourselves to others. We lose sight of the present moment, which is where true growth and alignment happen.

This wisdom is not limited to those practicing Reiki but can serve as a gentle guide for anyone striving for ease and grace in life. Whether you are on a spiritual path or navigating the everyday challenges of life, remember this: Trust your journey. Let go of the need to control outcomes. Engage in what brings you joy without the pressure of expectations. In doing so, you align with your natural flow, and life unfolds with grace.

May this message inspire you to let go, trust, and find peace in simply being present, allowing life to develop in its own perfect timing. The more we relax, release, and embrace what is, the more we open ourselves to growth and ease in every aspect of our lives.