Is he draining your energy?
You might not notice it at first, but over time, being in a relationship where your energy is constantly being taken can leave you feeling drained, tired, and even disconnected from your own sense of beauty and power. You used to be glowing—your energy so vibrant, your beauty so radiant. Then you accepted someone in your life. Now you are worn out, your light dimmed, your spirit heavy.

Is he draining your energy? You might not notice it at first, but over time, being in a relationship where your energy is constantly being taken can leave you feeling drained, tired, and even disconnected from your own sense of beauty and power. You used to be glowing—your energy so vibrant, your beauty so radiant. Then you accepted someone in your life. Now you are worn out, your light dimmed, your spirit heavy. If this feels familiar, it’s time to ask yourself: "Is he draining my energy to fill his own empty cup?"

When a man’s masculine energy is wounded or imbalanced, he might unknowingly pull from your feminine energy to feel whole. At first, it might feel like you’re supporting him, but over time, you notice that you’re the one feeling depleted, while he still seems unsatisfied.

Here are some signs it might be happening:
🌸You feel more tired or drained around him
🌸 You feel constantly giving - emotionally, mentally, or physically
🌸Your sense of self is diminishing by starting to lose touch with your own joy, creativity, or even your physical beauty
🌸You’re not the person you used to be - you used to be vibrant, confident, and alive, but now you’re feeling lost, disconnected, and unsure of yourself

What can you do if this is happening?
☀️Reclaim your energy: The first step is to acknowledge what’s happening and take action to restore your balance.
☀️Set boundaries—emotionally, mentally, and physically—to protect your energy.
☀️Stop over-giving: It’s important to recognize that it’s not your job to fix him or constantly give to make him feel whole. You have to take care of yourself first. Start asking for what you need and allow yourself to receive.
☀️Tune back into your feminine energy: Reconnect with what makes you feel alive—whether it’s through creativity, self-care, spending time in nature, or practicing mindfulness. Rediscover what brings you joy and passion, and make time for these things without guilt.
☀️Consider the relationship: Sometimes, if a man is unwilling to address his own imbalances or continues to drain you despite your efforts to set boundaries, you might need to reevaluate the relationship. Your energy and well-being matter.
☀️Seek support: Whether through trusted friends, a coach, or a therapist, it’s important to have people around you who can help you navigate this dynamic and support your journey back to yourself.

Remember, you are worthy of love that nourishes, not depletes. Your energy, your beauty, and your power are yours to protect and cultivate. Don’t allow anyone to take that from you.

Take care of yourself first. Your radiance deserves to stay shining. 🌸